attachment and emotional work

attachment work with children

Parents and their children are connected. That's how you want it to be. That's how it should be.
However, sometimes things happen that disrupt or damage the bond.
This can happen, for example, through traumatic events, difficult pregnancies or births, hospital stays, separations, losses, etc.
The work of healing attachments is about confronting the conflict in close, loving physical contact, allowing old pain to emerge and healing with a new attachment. A loving energy can come because you can empathize with the other person when you are so close. Understanding grows and brings the deep feeling of belonging together to light.
Love can begin to flow with all its power and warmth.

Emotional Work for Adults

Difficult experiences take energy from us if they are not processed.
We humans perceive on both the mental and physical levels.
If we try to clarify and process difficult things from our past only on a spiritual level, this often fails because we only do so on a head level.
The body memory keeps breaking through and we don't feel well.
Therefore, the “lump in the stomach” remains stuck and we need a lot of energy to keep it from breaking up in everyday life, which sometimes works better and sometimes worse.
We lack this energy in everyday life.
Without realizing it, we are busy pushing things away.
In emotional work, you have the opportunity, as an adult, to face your “lump” in a completely protected environment and to reduce it using the method of holding.
so that not so much energy is lost with the covering and you become freer.